I agree about the jabby jabs. Some may call me a conspiracy theorist but I have seen way too many people loose their ability to reason. I mentioned this to someone about 4 years ago and he called me an idiot. He went on to get the hokey pokey twice. I hope he enjoyed his Dunning-Kruger moment. I wonder what he is doing now.
Right before reading your post, I saw something that made me think, Maybe Yuri Bezmenov was right. Commies infiltrating families and schools...This time with a needle.
I changed after menopause, but I didn’t divorce my husband. Sorry you had to go through all this. Could be the jabs. I remain unjabbed. My husband remains unjabbed. We still together.
We don’t think that going through menopause alone nor the clot shots alone bear all the blame. We suspect that these two in addition to the stress of lock downs lite and the destruction, apparently temporary though 5 years long in my case, of our earnings and a current acceptance of women divorcing for reasons that would have been beyond the pale when we got married came together to destroy our marriages. At least that what we think happened.
It’s undeniable the jabs have changed the body chemistry is subtle and less subtle ways. So it’s perfectly reasonable to assume they contributed to her change in character. But, as you mentioned, she actually works for the company that makes these bio weapons and the panic would have suddenly emphasised your differences and in this case you are on extreme opposites of the scale.
I did also wonder at one point if she had another man lined up long beforehand and, as hurtful as this might be, it’s more common than not for a woman to look for a place to land before jumping ship. She would certainly have had the opportunity working for a big organisation and travelling to various meetings and events. That doesn’t mean she succeeded and it would’ve been easy to have taken advantage of her only to realise she came with a whole load of baggage and the guy get cold feet. She might also have failed to keep up the pretence of being all sweetness and light and maybe her cover was blown.
Either way, you are far better off without being with the person she has turned into.
I am better off with what she became but my son is not better off without his father. He is not better off with his mother having him on antidepressants from age 11.
That is very true but you staying in the picture would be unbearable for you and it seems you’d have no influence on your son’s medical treatment and he pretty much turned his back on you long before he knew about the divorce. So I would say there is still a net benefit to your current situation and you can still hope and pray that at some point you will be reunited with your son. It might even be a lot sooner than you can imagine.
She may become so lonely without having someone to scapegoat for everything that she may end up financially supporting a parasite to babysit and do her errands. She will be her own undoing, one way or another.
When I told her that he was on the path to becoming hikikomori, a life long shut in, she said, “If that is what he chooses, then oh well.”. I even asked her who is she going to blame everything on once I am gone. I fear my son is now receiving the blame for everything. He is almost as big as his mother and has used his size against her in the not so distant past.
I agree about the jabby jabs. Some may call me a conspiracy theorist but I have seen way too many people loose their ability to reason. I mentioned this to someone about 4 years ago and he called me an idiot. He went on to get the hokey pokey twice. I hope he enjoyed his Dunning-Kruger moment. I wonder what he is doing now.
Right before reading your post, I saw something that made me think, Maybe Yuri Bezmenov was right. Commies infiltrating families and schools...This time with a needle.
I changed after menopause, but I didn’t divorce my husband. Sorry you had to go through all this. Could be the jabs. I remain unjabbed. My husband remains unjabbed. We still together.
We don’t think that going through menopause alone nor the clot shots alone bear all the blame. We suspect that these two in addition to the stress of lock downs lite and the destruction, apparently temporary though 5 years long in my case, of our earnings and a current acceptance of women divorcing for reasons that would have been beyond the pale when we got married came together to destroy our marriages. At least that what we think happened.
It’s undeniable the jabs have changed the body chemistry is subtle and less subtle ways. So it’s perfectly reasonable to assume they contributed to her change in character. But, as you mentioned, she actually works for the company that makes these bio weapons and the panic would have suddenly emphasised your differences and in this case you are on extreme opposites of the scale.
I did also wonder at one point if she had another man lined up long beforehand and, as hurtful as this might be, it’s more common than not for a woman to look for a place to land before jumping ship. She would certainly have had the opportunity working for a big organisation and travelling to various meetings and events. That doesn’t mean she succeeded and it would’ve been easy to have taken advantage of her only to realise she came with a whole load of baggage and the guy get cold feet. She might also have failed to keep up the pretence of being all sweetness and light and maybe her cover was blown.
Either way, you are far better off without being with the person she has turned into.
I am better off with what she became but my son is not better off without his father. He is not better off with his mother having him on antidepressants from age 11.
That is very true but you staying in the picture would be unbearable for you and it seems you’d have no influence on your son’s medical treatment and he pretty much turned his back on you long before he knew about the divorce. So I would say there is still a net benefit to your current situation and you can still hope and pray that at some point you will be reunited with your son. It might even be a lot sooner than you can imagine.
She may become so lonely without having someone to scapegoat for everything that she may end up financially supporting a parasite to babysit and do her errands. She will be her own undoing, one way or another.
When I told her that he was on the path to becoming hikikomori, a life long shut in, she said, “If that is what he chooses, then oh well.”. I even asked her who is she going to blame everything on once I am gone. I fear my son is now receiving the blame for everything. He is almost as big as his mother and has used his size against her in the not so distant past.