Not so much keeping up appearances as we have not fully severed our matrimonial ties and are thus still somewhat dependent upon the other for certain things.
I hope to, but I will be busy finding as much work as my schedule will bear and then working them until I leave, but comes after I finish moving and get caught at at work. I will leave my contact information and I hope to be allowed on their Teams account. But the kids seem happy to see me go.
It sounds as if she is using you as an emotional punchbag and dumping her negative emotions onto you, it is a period of turmoil for everyone and she is not exempt from it despite her being the instigator of the separation. As they say fasten your seatbelts it's going to be a bumpy ride.
She is trying to now. I will soon be away and this no longer bothers me. Just thought it was a good vignette into her mind set. I do wonder what is going on in her mind, though.
I feel for you. Your life will be better (One hopes).
Why keep up appearances?
I think that is what is being faced now, appearances. The facade is down, and yet at the same time, old habits die hard.
So there will still be different signals sent.
But yes, there will be something huge you are about to get. Some peace and quiet.
Not so much keeping up appearances as we have not fully severed our matrimonial ties and are thus still somewhat dependent upon the other for certain things.
Most definitely, are you going to be picking the kid up still now that you are moving into a new apartment?
I am tonight, but have not committed to doing so Friday nor next week.
You are their father; I hope since you are staying in Japan you will try to maintain contact w/ your children no matter what….
I hope to, but I will be busy finding as much work as my schedule will bear and then working them until I leave, but comes after I finish moving and get caught at at work. I will leave my contact information and I hope to be allowed on their Teams account. But the kids seem happy to see me go.
It sounds as if she is using you as an emotional punchbag and dumping her negative emotions onto you, it is a period of turmoil for everyone and she is not exempt from it despite her being the instigator of the separation. As they say fasten your seatbelts it's going to be a bumpy ride.
She is trying to now. I will soon be away and this no longer bothers me. Just thought it was a good vignette into her mind set. I do wonder what is going on in her mind, though.
This short video explains things well.
01:05 onward is the most relevant bit
https://youtu.be/LS37SNYjg8w?t=66